Brenda Howard 12/24/1946 - 06/28/2005

Brenda Howard Home page -RIP
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LISA |
Dear Brendy, Three years later I miss you just as much if not more. Countless days I remember with joy how witty, silly, intelligent, & relevant you were & always are in my heart. Your presence on this planet was a gift & in my heart that precious gift of friendship we shared lives forever. One day again Brendy, we'll see each other again & laugh like old times. Love Forever, Lisa
SaturdayJune/28/2008 23:38:37 - New York
Larry |
It's three years now and I still miss you! I will always love you and miss you. Thank you for coming into my life. Always, your SpaceAlien!
SaturdayJune/28/2008 00:03:18 - Jamaica, NY
ethan rogers |
in memory of a truly great woman who fought for what she believed in.
SaturdayJune/21/2008 13:30:30 - orlando, florida
Pat Williams |
Cool site.
ThursdayMay/22/2008 02:55:07 - USA
SpaceAlien |
How did I miss posting this! Yesterday would have been your 61st birthday! Happy Birthday earthgirl! I STILL miss you! *HUGS* 12/25/07
TuesdayDecember/25/2007 11:36:04 - Jamaica, NY
Larry |
Another Thanksgiving without you. Still missing you! Thank you for being part of my life as short as it was. I will never forget you. Love your "SpaceAlien" 11/22/07
ThursdayNovember/22/2007 10:18:44 - Jamaica, NY
Larry |
6/28/07 It's two years now and I still miss my Earthgirl! I will always love you and miss you. Thank you for coming into my life. With much love, your SpaceAlien!
FridayJune/29/2007 01:56:10 - Jamaica, NY
Lisa Verruso
Dearest Brendy, 2 years have passed.how can that possibly be? You are one of the truly valuable, shining stars with a heart and soul to match that this planet so deeply misses and I so INCREDIBLY miss ewvery day my dear friend. Forvever Brendy, you are in my heart. Your convictions, values, and goodness have changed this world for the better. Thank you for coming into my life and filling it with laughter. I love you Brendy and with all my heart I mis you. Thank you my darling Brendy for being my friend. Until we meet again one day, see ya then Brendy. All My Love Forever, Lisa.6/28/07
FridayJune/29/2007 01:05:38
damir
TuesdayMay/22/2007 17:41:14 - ljubljana, slovenija
Carla Bashford |
I'm sorry to hear of Brenda's death. We were friends when I lived in the city a decade ago but lost touch after I got married and moved away. Thanks for maintaining this website for her.
ThursdayApril/5/2007 21:48:08 - Allentown,PA
Philip Bennett |
I never met or knew Brenda. Now I'll never get the chance to. Those who did are the fortunate ones. Let's all be good to ourselves, while we still can.
SaturdayMarch/10/2007 23:12:54 - Bklyn, NY
Jessica |
i agree with you
TuesdayFebruary/20/2007 14:33:51 - Waynesville
IRA DONEWITZ
JUST TAKING A LOOK FOR MEMORY.

HAVE BEEN HERE BEFORE WHEN 1ST TOLD OF THE SITE. BACK AGAIN FOR THE SAKE OF MEMORY
MondayJuly/11/2005 14:57:19 - DONEWITZ@AOL.COM
Jesse Lokahi Heiwa |
may we all continue the efforts in support of liberation and justice that Brenda pioneered. while we are sad about her passing, it's up to us to keep alive her spirit, may our memories of her become a catalyst for action for generations to come
SundayJuly/10/2005 21:49:09 - New York City metro
Yael |
I got to know Brenda online and used to chat with her often a few years ago. We have not been as much in touch lately and I am very sorry to hear about her passing. Brenda has always been a very caring person. My condolences to all friends and family. God bless.
SundayJuly/10/2005 05:34:03 - Germany
Wayne Bryant
Brenda, you will be missed.
SaturdayJuly/9/2005 23:40:18 - Boston
Lenny Waller |
It is with a saddened heart. That we say good bye to Brenda. A brilliant lady, with courage, ambition, & a loving careing heart. A great sence of Love & dedication for her community & all it's members.
Whenever a cause needed help, or support you could count on Brenda.
Go gently into that good night. Always remembered, Never forgotten.
SaturdayJuly/9/2005 17:34:33 - NYC NY
Stephanie |
I knew Brenda briefly, we met a few times at the Queens Munch. Larry, my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
SaturdayJuly/9/2005 16:03:30 - Queens NY
Denya Cascio |
My Condolences to Larry and to all Brenda's friends and family. I worked with Brenda now and then in NYC (who didn't?)... She will be remembered.
SaturdayJuly/9/2005 05:14:29
Zachary |
So many feelings, so little time ...

Knowing Brenda changed my life over 23 years ago, and countless times more since then. She was largely responsible for my return to political activism during the seeming hopelessness of the early Reagan years. She gave me the courage to come out in at least three different communities of kink. She was one of my very best friends -- in the very best sense of the word.

Absolutely unique; a true original; just one of a kind. A brilliant mind, a fearless heart, and (lest we forget in all this sadness) a fabulous sense of humor to boot!

If there is a heaven, I'm sure she's up there, giving 'em hell!
SaturdayJuly/9/2005 02:53:08
Jayelle Wiggins |
Brenda, I am sorry I did not get to know you, because you were obviously loved and will be irreplaceable. But I know you have left a rich legacy that will affect my life and that of many other people. Thank you. Larry, I am so sorry that you have lost your Earthgirl. The love she was in your life would be legacy enough. *hug*
SaturdayJuly/9/2005 02:09:54
Mary Smith |
Thank you so much for your gift to us of time, energy, and visibility. Thanks for being our history.
SaturdayJuly/9/2005 01:19:15
JJ |
Even in sadness there is much to learn and be thankful for. Brenda's the real deal, as is our love. Our respect and deepest sympathy to her friends and family.
FridayJuly/8/2005 18:27:45
Mr. Z The Gentleman |
I'll never forget you or the pinball machine in the old Lure! Larry, my condolences - a great person is gone but her love remains!
FridayJuly/8/2005 14:45:13
Suzin |
I spent about 4 years with Brenda, some of which were very challenging, as many of you probably know. But overall, I gained a lot and am glad I had that time with her. Her passing is a huge loss to many communities and individuals.
FridayJuly/8/2005 14:00:40
Rick Umbaugh |
We are all a little diminished to have lost such a valuable member of our community. I'm deeply sorry to hear of her death.
FridayJuly/8/2005 13:37:12
Lolita Wolf |
I first met Brenda at the TES Polymorphous Perverts SIG. She did a lot to chamge our world.
FridayJuly/8/2005 10:07:53
Jay LaCroix |
Brenda was one of a kind.She could be warm and loving, but she had a mind of her own. She overcame many problems and showed great courage. She was a kind and loving woman
ThursdayJuly/7/2005 22:30:07
Lawrence Nelson |
Welcome to the guest book for the late Brenda Howard. If you know Brenda please leave a message on how you knew her. Also feel free to send me or her family a message.

- Larry -
WednesdayJuly/6/2005 15:36:03

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